Seeing the inner person
In my class on research skills students practice oral presentations. One student gave a presentation that was hurried and unclear, the student spoke much too quickly, and the main message of the presentation was lost in the amount of detail shown. I was judgmental and...
Change, gains, and loss
My recent move from Colorado to Oregon involved getting a new driver license and new license plates. The photo shows my car with the old Colorado license plates and the new Oregon plates. On the one hand it was exciting to mount the new license plates, but taking off...
A good friend changes you
This is what my friend David said on our last run together before I left Colorado to move to Oregon. This move has been a time of goodbyes. There were tears and there was laughter. Saying goodbye to friends in Colorado was hard on the one hand, but it also warmed my...
Unfolding chaos
My wife and I are moving from Colorado to Oregon. Most of our belongings are in boxes, we are taking care of all the things that need to be taken care of when selling and buying a house and going through an interstate move. This time feels chaotic and it is easy to be...
“Pay attention to this because it is important for David”
This is what my wife said to me as we were reading the newspaper in the morning. What she wanted me to pay attention to was an article in the New York Times that announced that Bob Weir had died. Bob Weir was the guitarist of the Grateful Dead. To be honest, I don’t...
“I prefer helping people to giving them tickets”
Early in the morning I was waiting for my friend in a coffee shop for our regular get-together. My friend showed up late—which is not his habit—and he looked frazzled. He told me he discovered he had a flat tire as he parked his car, and now a parking inspector was...
First what, then how
Jess Rowe and Miriam Payne made history by rowing across the Pacific Ocean. When they decided to embark on this ambitious voyage, they may have had no idea how they were going to make this journey a reality. How could they get a boat that would carry them across? How...
Nurturing your ideals
This summer I had the opportunity to walk along a small country road near the town of Bergen in the Netherlands. Along that road I encountered the bust of Mary shown in the image. The shrine commemorates the “Miracle of Bergen” where in 1421 a church was destroyed by...
How I support scientists and engineers
Modern-day scientists and engineers work under challenging conditions; they face pressure to produce at a high pace in an environment where technology is rapidly changing. In this environment, balancing intellectual skills with emotional and interpersonal skills is...
Stepping out of your comfort zone
As I left my house a wave of nausea swept over me and I threw up on the driveway. I was on my way to my first training in the burn building, which was part of my training as a firefighter. The burn building is a concrete shell of a building. It was filled with pallets...
